WAT-

I just wanted to let you know that you have really helped so many people with the things that you've written on this forum.

I work with a woman that is going through HE!! right now, and I was able to point her to your thread. It warmed my heart to know that I could share the resources that I have had. I know that she read your posts, and I believe that she is still in He!!, but now at least has a foundation to start healing..........

This situation has also helped me to see first hand, how devastating my actions were to someone, and how much I have grown throughout the experience.

You've really given us a gift.

Thanks.

I love WAT

Well, kily, thanks for filling my admiration EN today <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> .

Seriously, I shudder to think how many times I've been wrong and suggested things to individual MB'ers that did more harm than good. (After all, I wasn't successful in salvaging my marriage.) Fortunately, there are lots of folks like Pepper and yourself also on this forum who can echo views or provide opposing ones. This makes it more comfortable for me to offer a view or a suggestion - others will chime in without hesitation to correct me. So, as a group, I think we do pretty well for amateurs.

For what it's worth - I repeat this every chance I get - I believe this forum would not be successful without the participation of former WSs. I would not be where I am today without the perspective of former MB'er SKM. These are the folks really deserving the praise. Without the WS's insight, the rest of us would be left guessing and scratching our heads - relying on alien abduction theories as an explanation.

WAT