Well, I guess it could be pointed or direct.

Brief Background is the the attached links in sig line.

My wifes sense of humor. Several times over the last few weeks she has made comments about seperate sleeping arrangements. I know she does not want me to touch her in ANY intimate way. She said on October 25 that I could come back into the bedroom from the couch. The same day she admitted tht OM was meeting needs for converstion, recreation. I later learned that there were several lunch dates. Numbers vary depending to who is asked, her or OM.

Jokes in general:

Since the children do not like sleeping in their bedrooms maybe we can turn one into an office and the other into a sewing room for you. She replies, why can't one be your bedroom. She later states that she is just joking.

Last weekend we are at my parents house. My Dad has this wonderful new leather chair that I was sitting in. I made a comment about how comfortable it was, that I could even go to sleep in it. The wife chimes in with a "Maybe we should buy you one then". Dar old Mom says to take that one becuase Dad does not like it. Dad responds with a "You know I love that chair, and it is comfortable. It's so big that even 2 people can sleep in it so go ahead and buy one and make you all's bedroom into the sewing room and office so you can spend some time together"

So I guess the question is?

Why does my wife continue to make direct jokes about our sleeing arrangements. Trying to read between the lines or read her mind, is she trying to tell me to leave.

I do know from her comments the other night that she states:

I am not leaving my children
I am not leaving my house

I sometimes feel that she is trying her best to make me file for divorce or to get so angry that I blow up.

Just curious.