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I've been working on my plan B letter to give to my W tomorrow. I started reading some of the posts on mimi's thread about her WH changing and it looks like most people actually do the plan A thing for a long time. I've only been in it for about six weeks, but SH wanted me to go to plan B about a week or two ago. I know he's the expert but I wanted to see what other people thought. By the way I feel like I am way ready for plan B, I guess I'm a wuss.
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Starman, Dear. Are you still groping around for excuses to avoid Plan B? Please take Steve's advice. Your situation is ENTIRELY different from Mimi's. He didn't tell Mimi to stay in Plan A and you to go to Plan B because he hates you, but because your situation warrants it. All situations are NOT the same. Please listen to him, dear.
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No, I'm very ready for plan B Melody. Your right that my situation is different. I did have to do plan A until I felt comfortable moving to this stage. Steve warned me that if I went too long that I would stop caring and that would be the end of it. I can definitely feel that happening to me now so I know it's time. Reading all those posts scared me a little, but you are right. When my W told our friend that I treated her much better than the OM did I knew I had done all I could.
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