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Official V-Day Thread- Yes or No, do you recognize WS?
#2948300 02/08/03 05:17 PM
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Having only been a BS since October, I haven't been through a V-Day before with my WW in an A. What is the proper course of action for V-Day? Do I acknowledge her with some flowers at work like I did on her B-Day in December (received thank you e-mail). Do I ignore her and let the OM meet her needs on that day? There are many great minds at work here that have "been there done that"- what is the proper MB etiquette when it comes to V-Day?

I'm sure this topic will probably get many varied opinons......

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Re: Official V-Day Thread- Yes or No, do you recognize WS?
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What do you WANT to do? If you want to send flowers...then do so. If you don't want to send anything...don't.

If you're wanting to keep YOU in her mind...do! If you want her to maybe miss you...don't.

If you want to let OM met her needs...don't.
If you want to met whatever needs she will let you met...do.

btw...OM won't like that you do...if you do! (Wouldn't send a mushy card, however. Maybe something to make her smile. I sent H a stuffed animal one year which sang, "Wild Thing, I think I love you!" Everyone in his office played with it...and everyone knew who sent it! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> )
Re: Official V-Day Thread- Yes or No, do you recognize WS?
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If you are in plan A, why pass up such a golden opportunity to write a beautiful plan A letter?

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