Hi everyone could use some opinions...
LETS PLAY 20 QUESTIONS
#1- How do people fall in love
#2- How do they know they are in love
#3- How do they know if the person they say "I do" to is for love...true love. Or if they are sincere when they take their VOWS
#4- When is it in a relationship that when you realize your SO or Spouse's past do you start to not feel "special" and start to worry that the same ol mistakes concerning the opposite sex will surface again only when it does you will have 3 kids.
#5- When you come to that realization then it almost feels like a self-Fufilling prophecey
#6- Why does it hurt so much, why are BS's full of doubt, guilt and seem like they are the only ones trying.
#7- Why do we still have feelings for people that ripped our hearts out of our chest, were so cunning, and so dishonest? Yet basked in the warmth of a spouse that loved them.
#8- Why does it feel so good to acknowledge that you had your part in marital dissatisfaction, you are not perfect, but you stayed the course.
#9- Why do WS's feel like that they can put you thru false recovery after false recovery? Do they enjoy seeing you taking the bait every time
#10- Why does it hurt SO BAD one year later? Even though you are "legally seperated"
#11- Why does it hurt so BAD the thought of her dating another man?
#12- Why should it hurt you when they were "dating" someone when you were together?
#13- Why do you feel physical pain to see the confusion on your young childrens faces?
#14- Why do WS's seem to be oblivious to childrens pain.
#15- Why do WS's not see wrong in their actions
#16- What makes them think they are such a catch..."hot stuff"
#17- Why are WS's so darned angry?
#18- If they have told you a million times that its over and swear to the world it is, yet they maintain calling cards, cell phones, private e-mail accounts etc...Why should you beleive them
#19- When do you just give up
#20- When is it that you should recognize that a new healthy relationship would be great
