I think I have to share this story. I have now seen with my own eyes.. looking in from the outside.

Sunday afternoon was quiet and ohhh so very hot here. So I grabbed a drink and just after dusk , I settled on the front steps looking up to the appearing stars.

I noticed over the road ( small reserve base)A car I often see there coming in for when alarms go off and such. A car with usually a wife by his side and children in the back seat. This time no wife, no kids. BUT an extra car.

Then low and behold , this man walks out of a building arm in arm, happy as larry,,,,,,,with someone else ..it was not his wife. The anger and rage I felt at that moment was enormous. I sat on the steps and watched ( its a wonder my eyes did not pierce them)them walk towards her car. OOPSS then they began to argue..The guist of the arguement He loves his wife.. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> The tiff lasted a few minutes, then they were all lovey dovey again. ( didnt hear it all just enough)

I wanted to yell out as I have seen printed here... Its not very complimentary being the other WOMAN!.. but I didn't

or yell out ,,, be a man you [censored]!..but I didnt

I thought about grabbing my sons sling shot and giving them both a ping for their lives. But I didn't.

I considered a happy snap of the occasion.. but I didnt

I just ended up feeling an overwhelming sadness.

I don't know his wife, I dont know his kids. Though
Both my husband and I have often waved to them in passing as they reset alarms and so forth. perhaps now Its time I introduced myself. I don't know.

But my presence will certainly be known now, especially when there are two cars in the compound in the evening.

I don't know whether I was lucky or unlucky seeing that, but the interation between the two was certainly an education. He stating he loved his wife, yet still pulled into this intense lust. Truely sad. SHOULDA USED THE SLINGSHOT!

A camera with a flash should have gotten an interesting reaction! But the sling shot would have been great!

I'm glad it was you and not me that saw this. I can imagine the sheer repulsiveness of what you saw. I'd probably have puked.

I figured there must have been some cosmic reason, why I saw it.
I have seen many posts on these boards, referring to how can he love me , and then be with her, sort of thing.Tosseled with it myself.

Guess I have seen it now in its raw and shameful form of nothing less than Pure Unadulterated Weakness.

and yeah I think I came close to puking.And I don't think I will ever forgive myself for not using the slingshot or the camera.

Well...just keep the slingshot handy! Or better yet, how about a sign with BIG RED LETTERS Saying..."Does your spouse know what you are doing????" And a horn to get their attention! If nothing else...they won't show up together in front of you again!

Actually ,
the sign is probably better then the slingshot.

These new anti terrorism laws ..man oh man I could end up doing 5 to a 1000 by launching a ball bearing at a government base,

Ahh what the hell...it would be worth it.