I have reason to believe that after posting here for almost a year that there may be some lurking here that know who I am and are reaping inside information based on the questions I ask, and responses I give. It has nothing to do with MB's website. It's really more to do with me accessing the site on a work computer a few times. Anyway, I'll be changing my screen name and my profile. As of late, I haven't needed much advice as my marriage is going wonderfully. However, I really enjoy helping some of the rest of you. I just don't want my advice to be the talk of some local clique that includes my OW or my co-workers. Had I wished to discuss the mechanics of my marriage with any of them, I would have already done so. (in person).

So, Jamup thanks you for all of your advice, your patience, your friendliness, and will be arriving shortly with a new name.

Sincerely,
Jamup

Hi Jamup,

Sorry if there has been a compromise of your id anywhere. Part of the hazards of traveling through cyberspace. I too have had to be careful. My work put up new websense blocks so accessing MB has been limited. I still can but don't want to break company policy. I did talk to my HR dept when things were critical for me and got approval to be on MB (since they knew I was doing this in lieu of going to an MC all the time and being away from work). So it was to their benefit as well (esp since I work 50-60 avg per week).

I am glad things are going well for you and your family. We are also happy when you can lend a hand.

As for those who have nothing better to do than gossip.....well my technique is keep them busy and plant something stupid. Then watch it backfire on them. But that takes time and effort which may or may not be worth it (unless you want to make a point!!! - LOL!!).

take care,

L.