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I just heard a little segment on the news about a new type of private investigator in Japan.

These private investigators are young, attractive women, and their job is investigating unfaithful husbands. The suspicious wife hires them, and there are two different angles to how they can work. First, they can do the normal detective work, and follow the WS, gathering evidence.

But they will also go further, getting to know the WS and enticing the WS into falling in love with them. Before the R reaches the sex stage, the PI dumps them. The idea is that the PI entices the WS away from the mistress and breaks up the WS affair by getting him to have an affair with the PI. The PI makes sure the mistress finds out about her married lover's infidelity, which usually puts the cat among the pigeons with the mistress. The PI leads on the WS until she is pretty sure his affair with his mistress is ruined, then she dumps him. The idea is that he will then go home to his wife with his tail between his legs. And even if he doesn't, the BW ends up with all the evidence she needs for a divorce.

Apparently Japanese wives pay very well for this kind of service and it has a pretty good success rate in Japan. Pretty creative thinkin', Batman, but would it work in America?

Just thought some of you would enjoy hearing about this one!

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LIR,

Been a long time since we chatted! Hope things are going well for you - how about a quick update? Saw your post and had to smile - Hell Hath No Fury ......!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Best regards always,
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Hi Fishwife -

How nice to see you! I hope your Recovery is still moving forward - I am feeling very anxious today, as we have our first session of MC tomorrow and I just don't know what to say - the last time we tried this in Oct, the results were disastrous. I hope I have learned some lessons out of that experience, but I am still scared.

Keeping my chin up,
Take care,
LIR

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I actually heard of a friend of a friend (you know how that goes) about a female PI who was hired to seduce her husband to prove he was unfaithful. The PI recorded the whole thing and thus his philandering was exposed to his wife. Obviously the seduction never turned physical.

I actually thought of doing the same thing to OM so my W could see it was not "her" necessarily who he wants, but like you asked, I don't know how you do that here in America.


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