Thank you for the replies that I received. Hearing of others with the same problem really helps. I'm not too optimistic that the 'issue' will go away on its own...I know that time heals but this is a real destructive character trait that my husbands displays...I would like to read something, a book or article on jealousy to find out if there is a proactive way for me to deal with living with a jealous husband and to help him deal with it himself. Any suggestions here would be very welcome. Coucelling is on my list of things to do...now to find a good coucellor...