Here is a tool I have used several times. Look for the 'abuse' or harassment addy (ie: hotmail, etc.), if you can't find it most e-mail sources (not sure of the correct lingo) have an addy called: postmaster@(e-mail server).com (or .net, etc.).
ex: OW went from hotmail, yahoo, cs, etc. each time she had to expose her email addy to send me her horrible thoughts (she babbles in the 3rd party). Well I have had the distinct pleasure of sharing those 'horrible e-mails' to those servers and they decided the content of those e-mails violated their rules and in 2 out of 2 cases submitted they shut her down. Will it happen again? If she pulls more stunts like that it will but I am not the one who shuts her down. Just putting it in the hands of those who can.
That is my point. It is not always up to me to take full action. Sometimes the BS does need to involve other sources. Don't be afraid to do so. On the other hand, don't be stupid and make stuff up. I was very clear with these companies as regards to what happened. I gave them the info and they made their decision.
This is an issue for the WS. Doesn't want to make waves for the OP. Well if that is true, then tell the OP to get OUT of my way. Stay OUT of my life.
By the way, I must say that the OP is just not good at putting me down. She sent me another e-mail telling me I was immature and not to e-mail her again (I will if she just quits writing - LOL!!!). But the funny thing is that she called me by my full name in all capital letters. It was funny LOL!! I called the WS and told him of her latest antic. I said, wow she knows my last name! Ws was a bit confused. I said, I thought she wanted to be Mrs. _???? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />
By the way guess where this latest report #3 is going? I was already asked to provide the e-mail encoding info and now I have it. Ooooohh.....that OW is soooo cooperative. Think I ought to send her a thank-U note? Alas I can't, she said not to e-mail her..... oh well her loss. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
Learn what your tools are and use them wisely.
L.
