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can someone explain the false recoveries to me, i just went through one and i wonder if next time will be the same. do they know theyre not ready when theyre making all these promises to the bs? how will i know when its real? im in plan b for now but i will let my h back when i know its really over with him and his ow. any thoughts anyone? whats in their heads when they flip flop?
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I have read the OW site to gain knowledge, these relationships go underground frequently. I believe we also went thru this, but in my heart I know she is now really gone. You may need to spy..software, PI and check o mate...got to go
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im hurt,
Well, you set up the ground rule to be back as H. You have learned to put more monitoring. WH is a weak person, no disrepect. It is not about love to you, his in love is not here right now, it is about his willingness to ammend you. You know when he is not truthfull, you are his wife ... look at his actions/behavior not his words/promises.
He has to earn your trust and love and tell him that is one of the condition to work on M.
-rh-
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well i have no contact whatsoever, i told him to go back to her and he did. now im sure he thinks i dont ever want him back, wont that break the plan b, to start telling him he can come back if..? im just totally confused about what i should be doing. i did read that if the wh is trying to choose between his w and ow, you must go straight to plan b. im really confused redhat, can you guide me a bit on what i should do?
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