Since you are the closest in traits to my H compared to anyone on this board, I would really like your input on this one. Can you please check out my latest update and developments over "In recovery"? Here's the link: Jen's thread

In short, my H said he has decided that he just doesn't think he can forgive me, and that we should both just move on, and divorce.

Now I'm at a point where I am beginning to feel desperate again, I don't want to lose my H.

Part of me is feeling this morning, after a couple of days of real heartache, that this is just his way of getting the upper hand again, and forcing me to display the "proper" attitude, one of grovelling and "I need you" and "I'm sorry" and "I'll do anything."

I wonder if I should go with my heart and go to him and basically beg and plead for him to give me another chance, or "call his bluff" and cut off contact and see how he likes it.

What are your thoughts?

Jen <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

BUMP....Anyone seen "How?" aka Brad around the boards lately?

Jen