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Ok we are all in the same boat sort of. I was out the other night and a man gave me his phone # and e-mail address. I had already talked to him for a while (about two hours) while my WH was talking to and romancing the bar. He left with another woman, right in front of me. Like i wouldnt notice, you know the old we are just friends so you don't care do you.
anyway, the man is married and it was funny. we are in the same place (or so he said, im really not dumb enough to take his word for it) His wife is, and has been cheating on him. Is pregnant with om's child uck huh. I am thinking about e-mailing him. I know i am in a vulnerable state. (arn't we all) but it was so nice to talk to someone who understood. CRAZY arn't I
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There are THOUSANDS of people on MB who are in a similar state as yourself, or have been. You do not need this one man to talk to...
unless of course, you've decided NOT to do your best to save your M. If that's the case, then I say, "Go for it!".
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anyway, the man is married and it was funny.
it was so nice to talk to someone who understood. CRAZY arn't I
Not crazy to be able to talk to someone but absolutely crazy to even slightly consider even emailing this guy. He is married, you are married.
unless of course, you've decided NOT to do your best to save your M. If that's the case, then I say, "Go for it!".
IF this was made in jest, then it was pretty poor taste considering that she IS thinking seriously about emailing this guy.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> helphelp
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posted March 19, 2003 04:32 PM
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Ok we are all in the same boat sort of. I was out the other night and a man gave me his phone # and e-mail address. I had already talked to him for a while (about two hours) while my WH was talking to and romancing the bar. He left with another woman, right in front of me. Like i wouldnt notice, you know the old we are just friends so you don't care do you.
anyway, the man is married and it was funny. we are in the same place (or so he said, im really not dumb enough to take his word for it) His wife is, and has been cheating on him. Is pregnant with om's child uck huh. I am thinking about e-mailing him. I know i am in a vulnerable state. (arn't we all) but it was so nice to talk to someone who understood. CRAZY arn't I </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">First of all.....your H left with another woman while you could see him........what a schmuck.......sorry.
Second....this is the first time you meet this man and he's giving you all this information already? Sounds fishy to me.
It's perfectly normal to want to talk to someone who is a good listener. Completely different to get caught up with one of those that just act like they are listening.......and making up a similar situation s they go.
Kinda sounds to me like this man preys on woman down on their luck.....you know....trying to ride up like prince charming. "I know what you're going through...me too" kinda thing.
I wouldn't bother contacting this man in any way.
Do you want to save your marriage?
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