Didn't want to hijack Rich's thread. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I searched and searched and can't seem to find your story. So please forgive my ignorance, but have you experienced Infidelity in your marriage, whether as a BS or WS?

My intention in posting to you is not to start a flame of any kind, I'm just wondering what frame of reference you draw from, is your advice to others based on first hand experience? Can you please share your story with us?

Much thanks and God Bless,
Jo

<small>[ March 23, 2003, 12:08 PM: Message edited by: Resilient ]</small>

Yes I have my marital difficulties, however I don't want to discuss them at this time. I am interested in MB concepts, and marital behaviour in general, as well as general human psychology and how that plays into relationships.... for now I confine myself to those, and leave my personal circumstances out of it. I realize everyones life is interesting and of some merit re helpful to know the inherent bias each has accordingly, but I also think that gets in the way sometimes. There are principles involved IMO, and ones position on any given issue should stand or fall on it's own merits. Too often here (and life in general) folks seek to make the individual the issue, and not refute/prove the points being argued.

Thanks for responding LA, although you have not answered my question. That being, "have you experienced Infidelity in your marriage?".

Jo

Resilient,

I can't stand to see yet one more person fall into this. You have earned respect on this board and are getting total disrespect.

Orchid is on to this, Nellie1, maybe some others.

LA is none other than SNL. His wife even refers to him this way on her posts in the D/D forum.

The reply written here ..... tis written by a JERK.

And, this is the very first time I have ever posted like this in all my years.

IS

InShock,
LA is none other than SNL.
WOW! As soon as I read his response to Jo’s post, that is what I was thinking. And then I read your reply! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

He gave an almost identical reply a long time ago which is why it rang a bell.

This actually came up in another thread not long ago. Forgive me if I do not go find that one. At any rate LA denied he is SNL. The writing style is so similar it is scary. If he truly is not SNL, they should surely meet each other because they are on the same wavelength. And the same quest.

jd

Whether SNL and LA are one and the same or not and known by others or not is really immaterial. The point is that no one can live a double life without it being obvious to some.

SNL is an intelligent person but his actions betray that intelligence. LA appears to be doing the same. Even though many of 'their' points have merit. Application seems to be amiss. For that I am truly sad. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

This is not meant to confuse any of you. You believe based on what you see.

I have to write this way.

Remember you can fools some of the people some of the time but not all the people all the time. So far, there are no fools here.

Inshock, I believe Jo is ok with her thread. It is also good to know you care. Good to hear from you. If you are in the same area, sure would like to hear from you.

take care,
L.

Locking thread.