Wondering how you are T. Personally I am getting tired. Wh's abusive tactics, which include not discussing things or caring about our future... to a fair degree... are getting to be too much.

Picked up the Verbally Abusive Relationship this week and find it interesting. Of course we all know name calling is abuse, but so are subtle put downs and one upman ship... gee it sounds familiar to me.... of course I wonder is it the drinking or the man? But the man I am married to chooses to drink and act abusive at times... Sometimes I see glimpses of the wonderful man I married, but all and all lately, I do think I am settling for far too little.

I hpoe things are going better for you.

Hugs, Honey