Yesterday I had surgery on my nose for a deviated septum from a car accident my husband and I were in, in December. My H was kind enought to take me, we came home and laid down for awhile and then when the kids got home he said I'm going for gas I will be right back, well he never came back, because I decided to follow him to see where he was going, because I knew he was lying to me. He left again on Monday night and he won't tell me where he is staying, doesn't call the kids or see the kids again. He is calling the OW whom he left a month ago when he came back home. He tells her how much we are getting back from income tax, he tells her everything. I don't think he is staying with her all the time, because she has partial custody of her 3 children. I'm not allowed to drive for 2 days, I can't bend or do anything strenuous and I am like a zombie from taking pain pills. I really needed help with the kids last night and today to get breakfast and lunches made from school, I had no time to rest so my nose has been bleeding all day and night from no rest and stress. He has no heart at all he just keeps throwing the past in my face from what I did to him, when the reason he left on Monday night was because I interupt him when he is arguing with me. The ow says he can't stand to touch me, and he loves her not me. She also, say I have no clue what is going on. She told me I made her life miserable and gave her a rep of being a slut.

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She told me I made her life miserable and gave her a rep of being a slut.
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So?

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The ow says he can't stand to touch me, and he loves her not me
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did you expect her to say that he loves you and not her?

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He is calling the OW whom he left a month ago when he came back home
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Now here's the key issue. Why did he come home? what was your understanding? Have you discussed any ground rules? Why would you want to have him at home [lying at you, hurting you]? Does he know that you know? Does he care?

N

He came home, because he called and said things were getting bad with the OW, she tried to kill herself a couple times when he was with her, because of not seeing her kids. Now since my H left she got partial custody. It was under my understanding he was here to stay. I don't think he is staying with her, because her girls stay over for the week. He won't tell me where he is staying, I can't even get in touch with him if I need him. No I guess he doesn't care at all about anything, not even himself or he wouldn't have left the kids again. I can't even drive and my older son missed the bus.

Well last night really tops the cake too, his gf said oh Brian is spending the day with her and her 2 daughters to get to know them better. He said he was taking our kids today. He told me he never said that. I called the gf's house to see what time he was taking the boys and her daughter answered the phone and his gf hungup.

KEEP YOUR KIDS AWAY FROM UNSTABLE PEOPLE!

Do NOT allow your husband to take your boys if they are going to be with someone who threatens to KILL HERSELF!

Call an atorney and get some sort of legal advice about this. Did your husband send you an email telling you about her threat to kill herself?

Pep

No that is when he came back for a month to be home and only to leave again this past Monday to go back to her.

Are you allowing your sons to go anywhere near her?

Goldie, is there some reason why you are talking to the OW? I don't know why you continue to immerse yourself in this Jerry Springer show and then complain when things get crazy. Its tragic that your kids have to see such insanity.