Hi,
I have moved over to general questions from Just found out, as it seems to get better response:
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Since H always gets angry whenever talking about the OP, or even suggesting that there is anything going on; is it OK to write the Plan A in a letter and give that to him? And then ask to discuss it? Suggestions here please....
He is really acting strange.Yesterday he left work early, I only found this out by telling him I was stopping by his office. Then I get a page that he is on his way home and then he returns to work? I asked him what he was doing leaving so early, and he advised it was none of my business! And he asked if I was on a spy mission.... etc, etc.
Anyway, we finally talk via fone and I try to ask him what is going on and he says he wants a separation. I say fine if that is what he wants, but people do not generally want to separate unless there is someone else in the picture. He later calls to advise he is on his way home and is it safe to come home. I ask him why he wants to come home, he says he really doesn't so I say fine then don't. All of this in a very calm voice. He then shows up at home an hour later. We don't speak and I end up in our bedroom for the night..never speaking, and he sleeps upstairs.

This morning I left early to go to work to get things I can work on at home today. While gone, he gets ready for work and leaves. Now this is the catcher.........I had given him a very nice romantic card about 3 weeks ago. In the card I wrote how I loved him and always would, that I wanted to help him get through whatever he was going through, and I would be here for him. I love him and want us to work out things, acknowledging that I had taken his love for granted in the past, but I would never do that again. I would every day tell and show him how much I loved him....etc. He had not opened it yet. I trusted God would put it on his heart to open it when he needed to.
Well, when I got home from getting my stuff from work, he had already left for work..However, he had opened the card and left it on my pillow with a note that said he really liked the card, and then signed with our usual affectionate sign off. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I am really confused..... <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />
Can anyone advise what is going on with him? Help with Plan A
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