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I am interested in checking up on what my husband is doing on the internet (long-story) he does not use outlook for his "affaious" e-mail. Im sure he uses yahoo etc. so I cant see or look it up. He is VERY computer literate and wipes out everything he does not want me to see. I was going to purchase spyware but I am afraid he will be able to tell it is there? Has anyone used this or know of something else....
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mlf: a good one is Starr home version at www.iopus.com. It costs $40 and is very effective and very easy to use. It records all webpages, all keystrokes, and both sides of chat. It works in invisible mode as long as you install it on invisible and PAY for it and insert the code. If you don't pay for it and insert the code, it will give a warning every time you restart the computer. It is well worth the money to me.

A word of warning, when you DL it, download it to your computer, RATHER THAN selecting "open from site." It will not install in invisible mode if you do the latter. Just down load it to your desktop and double click and it installs easily from there.
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mlf199, Why can't you go to Yahoo? Just type in Yahoo.com. Easy as pie to get info then.
Enter the info ask for when you click on get Password or get Id.
Then enter info if he's given correctly, the birthdate, and zip code. I got all my FWH's secret emails that way, even on iwon.com.
Give it a try. Then you have to be able to access his side you know to read the info sent. If you knew a screen name, you can get password rigth on screen. But if not, go for the id first, read his mail and get that when sent. Then go back and click for password, enter all info again and it will pop right up on screen! Make sure you do not change the password! That can happen if you click wrong place.
God bless, and go for it. LouLou
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I am just wondering with yahoo, it asks for an alternate e-mail address to send id confirmation. I'm sure he did not make that our home e-mail, he would have used the work e-mail ( i have no access)!! Also, the software would be great, but if i download it to the desktop how will i remove it?? Thanks
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mlf, after you install the software, you delete the installation package and empty the trash.

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