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Dear TM94,

Dazedblonde was on my thread called "The OW feels like my H is cheating on her!!! And he is..."

I have gotten myself in a mess concerning a threesome, not with the OW but by fulfilling a mutual fantasy with my H while he has been having the affair.

Now My H is 100% sure that he is capable of living a life caring and loving for two women on equal terms. And that he is willing to pursue that with me...

I was just fulfilling a fantasy, which was damn right amazing but to take it into our real life....??????

Dazedblonde said you could help. Please look onto my thread I mentioned for more info. I really would appreciate your input!

-queen-

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QueenBH -it's me claireb. responding to your "situation", again read my posts under "unbelievable story" in general quesitonsII,
my password name was (stacyseman)just changed it-
your H is literally saying the same things that the OMM I had an A with to his W (who was my best
friend and next door neighbor).After I exposed him
about our A and "3-some"activities to my H, my sister and more importantly to a mutual friend/neighbor/gossipy-bigmouth, this last person a few days later contacted the OMM's W-told
her I have been telling people what has gone on-well, that was the end of ALL CONTACT with OMM, he
would not speak to me and hasn't ever since I exposed him publically.My H and I ended up in court, he(OMM) filed harassment charges against my H (my H called his W to confirm A-she prior to phone was still in denial),then my H proceeded to call her parents whom he knew also,her Mother went
crazy on the phone (she had suspected him of another A 10 yrs prior)-YES, this is a confusing story but all true,very embarrassing-many people in our area/community know-this man I had the A with is wealthy/powerful/publically known---they
(OMM and his W)have done everything they can to protect their image-he told me on the phone the last time I talked to him,"your'e trying to ruin me" this man is so full of himself/arrogant/self-absorbed.Will he ever change?Who knows,he is on TV,and anywhere else to show himself/company-we (my family)have moved to another suburb but we still cross paths on the road-it is a hostile situation-one that will never be resolved or forgotten.will add more later-let me know if you
want me to share the court experience with you.


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