I have been married almost 7 years and have spent all those years on an emotional rollercoaster. I am married to a man that is Manic/Bi-Polar..so that explains a lot of the instability.

6 months ago we separated so that we could deal with our issues individually. I have made great progress and it seemed that the space had actually brought us closer together.

My husband recently went on a trip that was work related and has come back to...treating me badly.
I went to his work to see him today and saw on his computer mail from somebody named Candy(he had a special folder for her). He hesitated and said it was an old friend from home.

It is so hard b/c we don't live under the same roof, so he could be doing anything and everything and I would never know. Now he is acting very mean and angry with me and will not see me.

Do you think that I had "busted" him and now he doesn't know what to do. I love him, however, I draw the line there. I deserve better. The problem is he will never be straight with me and I don't want to jump to conclusions.

Help...