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#2965016 05/21/03 06:59 PM
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I just finished posting a response on another MB forum in which I read my response for clarity and punctuation (forget the grammer.....I'm from Bal-tee-more, hun!) and saw that I've been a posting member since May 2001. My goodness....the past two years have flown by so quickly that I've not had time to absorb just how long my marital "situations" have persisted since my public acknowledgement of the same.

TWO years....and where am I? An update would be too lengthy and I don't want to bore anyone with rehashing the same ol'/same ol'; therefore, I give you a briefing:

Hubby has been home for one year and one month. The OW is no more (as far as circumstances indicate <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> ) and he is working (in his own "twisted" way) on his compulsions. I see improvement yet I know that there is still a long, trying road to be traveled in the distance. Every accomplishment towards achieving a mutual ground moves at a snails pace. Me....I'm steadfast doing what I do best...work 40+ hrs. and keep the home-fires burning. Him...he seems content with his lot in life...or so it seems. I don't know, he doesn't "want" to talk about it. Therefore; STALEMATE.

Other than my ultimate gripe (see above), I'm hanging in there hoping for a positive sign to help me perservere the rest of the ride. One thing is for sure, no matter what...I WILL SURVIVE! Thanks to you and your support <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

#2965017 05/21/03 09:19 PM
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Geez,

Where has the time went? It has been two years and a month for me!!! But I have closure, as my divorce was final on the 19th of Nov. And I guess that is better then the limbo thing. Stay strong and keep the faith that something good can come of all of this!!!!

Dawn <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

#2965018 05/21/03 09:27 PM
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God Love You, Dawn! You and I, along with too many others, have been through the "mill", so to speak! The positive side of all of this disharmony is that we learn from the lessons that are given by our higher being. What is learned in this life shall not be repeated in the next...

Bless you and yours....always <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />


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