</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by adamv:
<strong>I have been married for almost 18 years. I LOVE MY WIFE WITH ALL MY HEART!! She told me in february it was over and served me. I have found out it is all over a co-worker! We have been seperated since Feb.25. She is very open about her relationship with him!(dating,meeting at theater,phone calls ect..)THE CHILDREN ARE SEEING ALL OF THIS!!! I know that I have not been meeting her needs but I will do what ever it takes to keep our family together. I know that is what God wants. We are christians and God is not in this! I have been told by friends and my counseler that this fling is only temperary and will eventually die or crash.I have also talked with countless divorced people and have concluded that most couples have at least made an attempt at reconciliation. Is this true? I am willing to wait however long it takes. Is there anything I should do other than go ahead with the divorce? My children are devistated as am I. My teenage children are full of resentment towards her.Is there any hope? Please pray for us. My wife has totally shunned friends and our church family. Any help would be appreciated. God bless!!
My teenage children and I set and talk frequently about my W's behavior. In no way, form, or fashion is she thinking rationally! It's almost unbelievable. I pray for the day our family will be re-united if that is posssible. Any thoughts anyone?</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">FRIENDS,
SOMEONE, PLEASE COME AND GIVE ADAMV SOME GOOD ADVICE AND DIRECTION. HE'S VERY DEVASTATED RIGHT NOW.
God Bless,
