I want to believe him but I don't. The OW says they are still involved but he says they are not. I am filing a harassment report with the police either this afternoon or tomorrow. She will not leave us alone. We changed our number so now she has resorted to emailing me to get messages to him. She is psychotic. I have asked her to leave me/us alone. She will for a little while and then it starts all over again. I don't know if she's just obsessed or if he's fueling it and still seeing her. He swears not. He had the phone number changed and he is the one who suggested going to the police. I am just so tired and worn out and I don't know who to believe anymore. I just want a peaceful life and her to become nonexistent in ours. I know a lot of it is because I am so emotional b/c of the pregnancy but I am so at my wits end. I just needed to air a little bit. Thanks for listening.

I debated on whether to post a reply or not but I wanted to say first that I am sorry you are going through this at this time in your life - pregnancy is such a personal family time that anything like this takes away from the experience. I am sorry hang in there.

As for trusting - you will have to trust WH until you have proof otherwise! If not what is the point in working on things. He seems to be the one initiating putting a stop to this obsession from OW. I think that is a positive step on his part. I could be wrong I am new at this - but I would trust him until you have proof otherwise. That will say alot to WH about your commitment to the marriage and to him.

Just a thought! keep in mind that I am new at this! Cherie