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I've been seperated from my husband for 7 months now and have been in plan A even though we were in ocean apart. He came to where I am last week and left today. I think I did a good job. Didn't LB or anything. Thing is, husband has been saying for months that does not want to be married. The usual speal. "I love you but I'm not in love with you," "I don't want to be married anymore, I want to be alone." He also appoligized for breaking my heart.
After seeing him this past week, I don't know if I should bother trying anymore. Things went well when he wanted to be there. Mostly I think he was annoyed with me hanging out with him and our son. He will be coming back next week and staying for a month. I don't know if my heart can take it.
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Luna,
It sounds like you may be ready for Plan B. Don't skip this step, it is designed to protect you and the love you have left for your husband....and also to reduce your suffering. I am sorry you haven't had the opportunity to see him more often....but your Plan A has gone on long enough.
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That's what I was thinking. I was letting him do the contact before and he never called. I always had to call to find out what was going on with visiting our son. Do I start plan B now or wait until he leaves for his next duty station? All my stuff has been sent to his next duty station so I will have to be in contact with him in regards to getting my stuff back.
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