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I can't believe that this is happening! July 4th will be our anniversary and July 29th will be the day we started dating! How do I handle this - act like it is nothing since he obviously does? Or do I send him flowers like I did after our first date (unusual I know)? A card? A phone call? Or nothing at all?
WH has obviously moved on! He and OW are moving into a house she purchased this weekend! It is a fixer up - which he is not a handy man! How stupid is that? They will have been together 4 months July 7! Could he really love her? I can't believe it!
Any thoughts? Please help!
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What MB plan are you working currently?
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Sorry it took so long - I didn't see the post! I am trying to Plan A! I don't have much to do in this aspect because he is living with OW. We do have contact because of our daughter - but is limited by my refusing to call him.
Note: WH says he is "In Love" with OW and claims that when he left they were not involved. He moved out from our house March 7 and in with OW March 9 - awfully quick don't ya think!?!?
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Well .... lies told by the WS during an affair are similar to lies a small child might tell.... the child with chocolate smeared all over her face who swears up and down she did NOT eat the cookies! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
Send a card. Send flowers. if you're in Plan A .... send him a framed photo of "the family" in happier times.
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