</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Jen Brown:
<strong>....but I want to confirm what H is up to and with who. I don't see what's unhealthy about that.
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">~*At the risk of being harsh*~

It is unhealthy because it keeps you from focusing on what you need to do for YOU. When are you going to start taking care of YOU and what YOU need...instead of literally "chasing" him about?? Would it be a DJ to ask you if you are that needy?

Lord, I for one, would love to see you take control of YOU. If anyone needed to enact a PlanB it would be you (IMHO).

PlanB isn't the end of the relationship you know. It is the beginning of a BETTER you. Stop fighting it.

JMHO
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