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A summer of plan B-Now what?
#2973973 07/22/03 01:57 PM
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As most know I have been away at college for the summer. He has been trying to be nice but still wont get help or counseling or even talk about our problems.
I have 3 weeks and have to make a decision.
I have several job choices away from him
good pay and all that. Is it too soon to move away? Should I stay close incase plan B works?
Or gone on with my life and a great new job because the past has been so bad. Has anyone else got this far and had to give up.
Any tips would be great.
Re: A summer of plan B-Now what?
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tough call,

But in a nut shell take the best job for your future. Get the work experiance and the money can only help you and your kids.

I don't think moving away if it's not to far would stop your marriage from being repaired.

Heck my WW affair and many I've seen on these boards took place between people 100's of miles away. So why can't a marriage work with some distance? Now I know people reading this will say it's much harder but if he's still on the fence then you need to look out for yourself. JMHO

good luck and nice going with the collage education.
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Thanks good guy.

I dont know why I feel moving will be such a problem. I think we will love it. And the kids are all for it. And the job is great, and lots more money. And he isnt on the fence he is out in the pasture - lol. He doesnt think he has a problem.
Re: A summer of plan B-Now what?
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If the kids are all for it and the money is great, who is to stop you? You have to make the healthiest decisions for you and family.

You are alone at this time, correct? You have to do what is best to support your family and yourself. You cannot depend on WS at this time. You depend on you.

I think this is a great opportunity!! So, my question is this: what are you waiting for? Sounds like a fabulous and healthy way of moving forward! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Love in Christ,
Miss M

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