Ok. so i went away for a week with my two youngest kids (oldest was in England for 3 weeks with his grandma) and my dad, was very nice to get away from things, but as soon as i came back into town...poooof...all the emotions came back!! Feeling very sad and lonely right now...back to the reality of my life!! Anywasy, what I am thinking about doing, is packing up what ever else is here that is my husbands. I still feel like this is "our" home, but he is making it quiy=te clear that this is not his home anymore, so i am thinking instead of seeing his things and having them make nme feel sad, I am going to pack them up fpr him!
It is not because i dont want him to come back and it is definately not because i dont love him because i do so much!! I justy feel like he is having everything so easy, why should I be used as a storage unit, if he doesnt feel like this is home to him anymore, then maybe his stuff should not be here either!! Anyways kid of long winded, just wanted to know what people thot of me doing that or if it would be a bad idea?? sorry its so long, like i said am feeling quite down and hopeless right now!!
Michelle

U r not long winded...... I'm long winded - LOL!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

I had a hard time seeing the WS things without the WS around. So I packed his things the 1st time, 2nd time and garbage bagged it after that. In fact it went flying on the front long a couple of times. Once of those times (I think time #4) the police was called in. They told him he s/b glad I wasn't throwing his stuff away. Also they said his best bet w/b to pick his stuff up and leave. Nope he had to make a scene so they took him for a ride. He won a ticket to the local cell for a couple of days. Then he had the pleasure of spending the next 7 days with the Ow. By the end of those 7 days (there was an RO order) he and the OW were begging me to take him back. Imagine that!?!?!? Told him to stay there but he packed his stuff up and showed up around 2:30am. Hmmph..... I was not a happy camper. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

L.

I may have missed it.

Did you ever decide to tell the OW's husband about the A?

Is OW still living with her H?

Pep