Wife just called and asked some mundane question about dog. She knows I haven't been acting myself lately so I think she senses something's a little worse than usual. Anyway she asks out of the blue how I know so much about her phone bill since she throws it away before I see it. Not wanting to reveal my source I tell her that when she deletes a call it shows up and I can only assume her reason for deleting it was because it was to OM. But I think she probably asked OM how am I getting the information. I told her I'm tired of playing the fool and it's things are going to get worse. She responded that "you're not playing the fool and let it get worse". I may tell her the truth about internet access or I am violating policy on total honesty. I'll lose the access but will have clearly made my point.
I have been looking at these bills for 18mos without her knowlege.