I'm frustrated and need some insight.

A brief history. Our marriage had problems that we both relized. I tried everything i could to solve them. My WW wouldn't talk about anything, go to counsling or even go for a trial separation.

We were the perfect couple, the one everybody thought would last forever. Our public interaction was the same as at home. Except for one area and that was my WW decreasing desire to have sex with me.

SO then comes DDAy in Mid March. I plan A until the end of May when my WW goes no-contact on me. Now it's exactly the same time the OM says he wants out of affair.

Well now 3 months later my WW has contacted me twice the last being just over 3 weeks ago. I know the affair continues.(OM wife told me but he's an increasing emotional mess)

My qestion for other WW or WH is why do I continue to get the cold shoulder?

Don't her actions scream out that she doesn't love/like me, need me or want anything to do with me.