Hi. Long time no post. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />
I was up late last night, reading the old archives. I read about you. Only there is no ending. Are your girls with you? I know I have no right to ask, but I pray they stayed with you after the divorce. I am figuring they are
18-ish and 12-ish.???

I hope you will give me an ending. I cried quite a lot. I have two girls also. Hard to imagine......

Thanks for reading.

tsc

tsc,
Chris is actively posting in the Divorcing/Divorced Forum--new posts the last 3 days. He might show up here, but it looks like most of his recent posts are on D/D.

Dear tsc,

Just wanted to say thanks for your words of wisdom the other night in ladies chat...the fog is lifting---but it is hard...

Hi kids!

Howzaa?

Only there is no ending.
Ending? Hah! I laugh at endings!!

My ending just sort of fizzled out......

Yes, I have the girls. Oldest just turned 18. Started college. Youngest is 12. (Drives me crazy <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> )

She left Feb 99. Saw girls in May of 99. Next saw them Jan of 2002. Just prior to divorce.
She came back for 2 days May of this year for oldest daughters high school graduation.

Divorced in Jan 2002. Wife STILL doesn’t know it. We have only talked about 10 minutes (literally) since around August 2000.

Didn‘t know where she was, so I couldn’t have her served. She wouldn’t even tell me what city she was living in.

Posted it in the local paper since this was her last known address.

She has called the girls sporadically since she left. Longest no-call streak was Feb 2002 - May 2003.

Whadaya do? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

<small>[ September 11, 2003, 11:54 PM: Message edited by: Chris -CA123 ]</small>

Thanks.
I'm sorry you couldn't get anywhere with your wife. She sounded like a tough one to try to crack.
I am glad your girls stayed with you. I am a BIG supporter of little girls staying with their mama's after a divorce. But your's should be with you. Sounds like you have done a great job. They are so blessed to have you.

tsc

I'm sorry you couldn't get anywhere with your wife. She sounded like a tough one to try to crack.
Can't crack something that's not around. I never gad a chance for anything. She left 5 weeks afer d-day and that was pretty much it. And when I say left, she left the state and moved to the other side of the country.

And before she did, I told her she would NOT be taking the girls!

It's really what she wanted as her & wankstain move like every 2 weeks-3 months all over the U.S.

I chose to retire from the US Air Force because I received a remote assignment (no family allowed) about 1 year afer she left. There was no way I would leave my kids. I told the wife (during one of our short conversations) and she said, "I guess you wouldn't trust them with me?"
I told her, "You couldn't take them anyway. You move every few weeks."
She replied, "Oh, that's right."

So she really wants/wanted to be involved with them.. NOT!