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#2984646 10/29/03 10:56 AM
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Why do some women use their children to control their Ex-Husband and abuse the fact that their father loves his children

#2984647 10/30/03 01:45 AM
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Can you be more specific about HOW she's doing this?

#2984648 10/29/03 04:01 PM
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RH,
It can go both ways. I have an ex-H who used my children. it is a very sad state of affairs. So sad for the children.

I'm sorry that you are hurting. Sorry that you are in this predicament. Do your best to maintain control of your reactions.

Pray, pray, pray!

Be the best father at all times and don't let your children see you in the way that "she" would like them to believe that you are.

Deep breaths!!!

Hang in there and in some moments you have to let go to let good things happen.


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