HI
My wife has cheated,and lyed to me,and the counseler several times,and she works in a retail store. She says an old high school friend just stops in once in a while to say hi.This is how her past affairs have started. I am ok with stopping in to say hi,but he calls,visits for an hour or more,hides his car around the corner,and he knows I dont like it,and its causing arguments with my wife,and I. I told my wife she is flirting,cause he would not stay for so long,or visit as often as he does,and she has his phone number.She is having an emotional affair that will escalate into a physical one. I told her to tell him not to come by anymore,stop calling,and stalking her. She gives him reasons to hang around. Should I tell her boss that she is using his store phone,and store to cause trouble in our marriage? If she was only saying hi,then I think she would tell him to stop visiting. He has said hi already. What should I do next? She can get fired,or there may be a fight. HELP

Your wife has had several affairs and appears to be entering another affair and you are wondering what to do.. IMO you need to stop enabling her to play this game by cancelling all joint bank and credit accounts and changing the locks on your door. She needs a dose of reality that she either gets her act together or you will be gone.

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

Pray for wisdom, MisterSteve.