I'm new to the forum, but I have tried to read all the topics on Marriage Builders. The issue is after 4yrs dating; 6 years marriage, my wife is withdrawing from me. I found out last night that is because she is attracted to a female, she met through my daughter's school. She has been speaking with my wife for about 3 weeks now feeding her with love deposits and trying to take her away from me.

I'm not sure if I have done the right thing here, but I told my wife she needs to make a choice me or the other women. I told her I'm working on changing from being an indifferent husband, and I'd like another chance. Her response is this women makes her feel so good and that I'll go back to my old ways in a month. I said well give me a month to prove myself, but the other women needs to be out of the picture. She has grudgelly agreed and went out with the other women for drinks to tell her she is out for the month. I know this is a mistake(meeting at a bar), but she was extremely angry when I protested.

At this point I'm trying to take the little I can get, because we have 5 & 3 year old children and I still love her and want to start making love deposits to reform the marriage.

Any advice?? Please

Okay mean this is the place to be.

Sorry to hear this.

I think you need to read up on affairs more specifically you should read up on "gender confusion" affairs.

This sounds more like sexual orientation issues with your wife and that will be a difficult thing for you to compete against.

Like I said read up on gender confusion affairs and that should help you understand what is going on. And hopefully help you figure out what to do.

Take care.