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a book called "The Snare - Understanding Emotional and Sexual Entanglements
"...(Lois Mowday Rabey) it's very interesting... although it does have some obvious insights as to how affairs begin....
MY SIL gave it to me when I confided in her that I had been pouring my heart out to another man b/c I felt that he understood me....
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<small>[ November 12, 2003, 08:35 AM: Message edited by: FeelinGuilty ]</small>
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---looking for feedback please.
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I haven't but I'll have a look at it.
Have you read "Private Lies" by Frank Pittman?
It's pretty good.
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I will check that one out too.... always looking for good reading materials.
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FG,
My favorite on the risk of EA's is "Not Just Friends" by Shirly Glass.
Are you still confiding in OM?
Hopefully the reading you've done has warned you of the risks.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by cwmac:
<strong> FG,
My favorite on the risk of EA's is "Not Just Friends" by Shirly Glass.
Are you still confiding in OM?
Hopefully the reading you've done has warned you of the risks. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Actually.. i am NOT confiding in OM. Not sure if you remember my story... but I was a WW and I decided to end it almost 4 wks ago with the OM. I have to say that I didn't think it would be that hard to get over someone. I cried at the drop of a hat. I missed him terribly, I couldn't eat and was taking sleeping pills to help me sleep. I lost about 8 lbs in one week.
Happy to report though, that I have gotten over the crying spells and moments of sadness. Now i am looking internal to myself and my marriage to try and figure out what made me want the OM in the first place.
I am still having problems with being there for my H emotionally. He's having a tough time dealing with this as well.
Thanks...
but please read the book "The Snare" it's very interesting...and pls share your thoughts...
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