Married 12 years and been having problems for the last 1 1/2 years. Husband came up one day and said I don't think I love you anymore. 2 weeks later, he says, Oh, I take it back, I was just unhappy w/myself etc. etc. etc. I love you. Of course there are plenty of issues swirling around w/secretary etc. etc. etc. Anyway, just painting you a picture that life is not rosy where I'm living. Anyway, I've got a good question for you. His brother calls him one day and they talk. I go into to see my husband later and he says..."It's my brother and it's personal." I'm a little put off, but I'm thinking later he'll tell me. He tells me later that he promised his brother that he can't tell anyone. Please will someone get out the marriage guidline book and tell me what's up. If someone asked me to not tell my husband, I would either say ok, and tell him anyway, or tell that person, no, because we don't keep secrets. Our marriage is already in a bad place where trust is concerned and now this *&^%. What should I do. I'm thinking right now that he cannot right this wrong that I feel he's done to me. In the course of our 12 years, I've always felt that he puts his family first. And I cannot tell you how degrading this is. They live in another state and last time we visited them and I'm in a room full of in-laws he call me a b*&^%. He says he was just kidding. I don't like those kind of jokes!!!
Feeling left out
<small>[ November 20, 2003, 04:09 PM: Message edited by: Chelray ]</small>
