I AM SO DONE WITH HIM, I WANT TO SCREAM, HE NEEDS TIME HE NEEDs THIS HE WANTS THIS I'VE DONE THIS ALL THE BULLSH#IT I'VE PULLED OUT OF MY A@#. HE DOES NOTHING WRONG, HE IS SICK OF ALL MY LIES, ETC ETC ETC

What I wouldn't give to be perfect like him, he can go have an A, he can leave every night after seeing the baby, I need to stop hounding him, I need to leave him alone (his quotes) he doesn't know how he feels and he doesn't know what he wants AND I CAN'T TAKE THIS CRAP ANYMORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Patience has never been my strong point, but I hate him right now, I hate how he leaves, I hate how he comes by, I hate how he is cold and distant, I hate how he says about the affair he is not sorry he had one BUT sorry he hurt my feelings...what does it matter anymore.

I should leave his a@@ at the doorstep he can rot in hell for all I care now...he is leaving his wife, his home, his daughter and his wife that is pregnant with his child. I hope to God I have a girl, I don't want to bring another man in this world that is remotely like him.

I want to hurt him, I want him to cry every night like I do, I want him to wake up every hour at night like I do, I want him to be lonely and sorry and miserable like I am...He told me he has been honest with me, too honest he said, what the hell is that supposed to mean! Am am his wife for crying out loud!!!!!!!!

He doesn't care about anything but his stupid self, his working out, his career, his damn car, him him him him him him him....

When do I get in the freakin picture? When he is ready? Doesn't he understand that I am human too and I have emotions and feelings and I can't take living like this anymore!!!!

It kills me not to talk to him, even if it hounding, he tells me nothing, he acts like I am a stranger and looks at me with complete and total disgust on his face.

I repluse him and disgust him and disappoint him, what does he think he is - some superhero!

The opposite of love is indifference.

My H told me about the proposition. It was on the same day that I called our pediatrician who explained that the height of colic is usually 7 weeks. Ellie was seven weeks old on that day.

I am speaking from a distance of 18 months, not less than one month after D-day. I got out of there for a week -- went to California to visit my sister. I know it is just incredible for you to be told this, but I hope a fellow BSer can tell you.

You are damaging the marriage at this point because of your hatred and rage. YOU are being ABUSIVE. Get him away from you until you can pull yourself together.

You have a baby to care for. The stress of your situation may be bad for her PHYSICALLY. You need to focus on that. My parents sent me a Scientific American article on how stress actually changes the formation of the brain which can result in personality problems later on. The earlier in life the stress, the worse it is for the child.

At this point, make him irrelevant. Get him away from you. He most likely doesn't appreciate what he has done to your or your children, but he isn't going to learn by your attempting to cram it down his throat. The most effective way to let him know is to tell him you want him away from you. BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND THE BABY, NOT TEACH HIM A LESSON.

Sorry you are feeling so mad. That's exactly how I felt. Everything was about HIM, and then all the lies and deception just made it worse. I completely lost my respect for him and most of my love. Now I'm just indifferent, don't even want to talk to him even about business. But try not to take it personally. I don't know how you do that, but he is a typical WS - cold, selfish, and deceptive. Sounds like you need to stay away from him, go walking or go visit friends, or get in a women's support group, etc. In time it gets better, or you get so tired of hurting that your heart gets hardened. Hang in there. I hope you get some relief soon.