After 6 weeks of pouring my heart and soul into creating an environment conducive to change and growth, I am still dealing with my WW's foggy position. Anti-Deps have helped me to get back to a place of "reasonable" control, but now I feel myself emotionally detaching. I'm not sure how to deal with this - anybody have any links to an article or advice that will help. I want to detach from the fear, anger and resentment but not from the love nor the desire to continue working on the relationship.

Also, there was an article posted by someone in a thread a few days ago (TMCM maybe?) focusing on how the energy of the WS is diverted while in the A and the subsequent effects. I'd love to find it again if anybody can point me to it.

Thanks everybody.