TooMuchCoffeeMan, saw you said you and your wife post together 98% of the time. Just wondered how many others out there do that?

I have referred my husband to a few threads, but we're still early in recovery. He's still trying to withdraw his feelings for her. I'm being patient ... allowing him time to process through this completely.

Would like to see us bieng one of those couples that post together .... or at least both post here like I've seen some couples.