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Melody - When I look at your postings I see Great Recovery. Please tell me this is possible. Here is a little of my story:
My husband confessed a 6 week EA ending with a night spent together with OW> He states he could not handle guilt and loves me. NC since end in August. Very poor communication between us before A. Almost like 2 roommates in the same house. We are in counseling and have both made a commitment to move forward. He is being open about questions and accounts for all his time. I also was a WS 15 years ago in the beginning of our marriage. He may never have gotten over this. Do we have a chance. When will I stop feeling so helpless and seeing them together all the time. please help!!
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always, you will find lots of help around here. Recovery is very possible if you use Marriage Builders principles to rebuild your marriage. Its also possible to have a better marriage after an affair than before, so don't give up hope.
The first thing I would suggest is getting the book, Surviving an Affair, and reading as much as you can about emotional needs on this website. You can get emotional needs questionaires on this website. It will help you understand each other if you both take them.
And keep coming here to read as much as you can and get support.
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