Well,
it's two days until I have to pick my WH up at the airport.I need some advice on what I should do with him,if anything.
I was really hoping to place a ton of love units into my WH's love bank when he comes home to be here for the holidays for 10 days with us from his job.BUT,last weekend,in a weakened state and crying,WH called me and said that he called OW and he said they were going to meet over New Years day in the town where he is currently working.
He "claims" that OW is seeing family but that is BS.What a coincidence for him to be back in this town at the same time OW just happens to be there visiting "family".I have already sent him a Plan B note and also sent the books SAA and others to refresh his memory of what we had begun to try working on but have since separated.I really think that they have been in contact all this time via e-mail and other phones,hence his continued need for this predator.
So my question is,do I try ot fill any EN's while he is here even while *knowing he is going to see OW after we have our family time or do I play aloof and just be "roommates" while he is here?
Part of me is so disgusted that he called OW after what I thought was NC and was weak and of course she is willing to fly from another country(6 hrs) to meet him(first meeting I believe since beginning of Nov.)I am hoping it causes so much emotional distress instead of any happiness that he throws up.Also,both families are furious with him that he is doing this and he has yet to hear from them that this OW will NEVER be welcomed into the family,ever.A big wakeup call? Who knows.
I have been reading here until my eyes are red but I am not sure what I should do.Part of me wants to be with him and spend time together while the other half hopes he never makes his flight.But the kids need to see him,ugh. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
Any tidbits of advice? My emotions are so messed up right now too I don't want to make the wrong decision about how to be around WH.As soon as this holiday is over and he is gone,it is back to Plan B pronto.
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