I can't help but think of the EA my W had some time ago as a learning experience. Today I can look back, not angry or in shock, but can think more clearly now as to why things happened the way they did. My w had a close boyfriend before me in Hs and he evidently had enough Love units in the bank to lure her over. But in those days it was kissy face only, myself included with my past girlfriends.

i know that this puts units in the old love bank, but how is this new generation going to handle this MB site 30 years from now when the girls and guys are going all the way in grammer and highschool.

Picture your w or H saying "but we did it together when we were dating" I know how my w feels for her old friend just making out, I can only imagine what the feeling would be if they went all the way. The older i get the more I believe in saving it for you spouse. Sounds old fashioned, but it makes alot of sense. It will also save alot of pain down the road. Wondering what others have to say on the subject. Merry X-mas and god bless...

Wokeup

I think there is a lot of truth in what you are saying. Our society has become so immoral and unloving and dishonest that many young adults are put off by marriage because they fear betrayal and divorce. Someone said that kids learn two truths as the result of divorce: 1) love is temporary and 2) lying is ok to get what you want.

Beau