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I am so sorry to hear about this. I really thought you and your H were going to make it...maybe you still will.
Are you talking yet? When you are both calm you are going to need to sit down (without kids around) and TALK to each other. No LBing...just talking.
You need to find out where his heads at, he needs to know where you are at...you need to listen to each other..don't argue...just listen.
Did he ever go to IC? Did you? No matter what happens with the two of you..both of you need to get into see a good IC. Don't keep delaying..do it!
If for no other reason do it for your kids! They have two parents who are in trouble, who have problems, who are in pain, who have gone through alot of trauma. The two of you need help!! Your kids depend on the two of you to work this out as adults...to do whatever is necessary. No matter what...married or divorced you will always be co-parents!
DO NOT DO THIS ALONE...GET HELP!!!
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