The OW keeps sending my H e-mail. They are not of a personal nature, but jokes. We have written her a no-contact letter, and I later told her not to contact my husband at all. I got an angry letter, then my husband also got one. She is very mental and unstable. It makes me upset, but yet maybe over time she will just quit writing?

Any help out there?

t456,

it does sound like she is unstable. Most emails have a "block this address" feature. I would just block OW's email address, so messages from her do not get to your H's inbox.

Hope this helps,

Sergey

I would block her address or cancel the address your H is using now and have him change to another one.

Block her from your email and if that's not possible, change your email addys.

You mentioned that 'over time' she may quit writing. It's hard to say, if she's unstable.

I ended it with exOM in July 2002, right before divorce was final. He contacted me by phone in Sept and Nov of this year. That's a long time after I ended it. Both times I hung up on him, not uttering a word. By the way, I'd blocked him on my email in August 2002. About 10 days ago I had an email from him, sent from a different address. I didn't reply, deleted it, and blocked that address too. (So that's three attempts at contact in 17 months)

After a LONG time of me trying to reconcile and following the principles here at MB, my exH and I are starting a new relationship. I've told him all of these things about exOM calling/emailing, and he suggested if it happens again we'll change my phone number, or use his phone # from his apartment when he moves back in here! I will also switch and share email addresses with him when he returns here.

It's really easy to stop contact if the WS means it, and is firm about it. I think though with some people they have a hard time giving up on a chance with the affair partner so measures like changing phone numbers, etc, have to be taken.

H_P