After leaving girls and I here in SD H went down to FL to see OW solid 3 day drive, will take 4 days to got to UT.<P>I asked if he was traveling alone for the return trip, he said yes, so I pushed a little more and asked where he was staying and he said on her couch. I thought wow that's been along time on a couch for this guy first ours for 4 months, then my parents, and now hers. How funny?<P>I did tell H the day he left here that if I found out that she was living with him in UT that I would take his military career from him and cause a great deal of problems. Is that why he is on the couch?<P>Now I think I should have asked if he still has his wedding ring on, my bet is yes. But what do I make of that?<P>Just wish that crystal ball could reveal more!!!!<P>Dawn