i think overall h and i are doing rather well...... at least in the affair recovery part.<BR> <BR>h has had no contact in about 12 months. doesnt seem to miss her, doesnt want to talk to her etc.<P>however lately he is ver short tempered and cross with me<BR>i get the feeling that he cannot stand to be around me. even when he asks me a question hes mean about it. we cannot get along at all. nothing i do is good enough. and im afraid it never will be.<P>if he doesnt get his way on EVERYTHING he gets angry, pouts, cranky until i give in<BR>this is not the man i married where did he go<P>anyone have a scenerio for this behavior? or how to fix it?<BR>im at my wits end and extremely unhappy<P>------------------<BR>Tomarrow is another day!