I am! I am!! LOL.<P>Who's hiding out here in MB land? Even those of you who have never posted before... come chat in this thread! <P>Karen<BR>

I are here!! I am sitting here listening to Leny Kravits and playing with my new green tea hand lotion from Eliz Arden.

Hi Topie, I'm here, like really bored just waiting till the W gets home from work.

I'm here!

okay folks.. what's the topic? My mind is a blank right now.

How are you doing Faith?

oh....sigh.... I think I'm doing pretty well, sem. thanks. I wasn't earlier . But I am pretty well in "acceptance" right now. I know I must continue Plan A - for me and for him. And I still believe things can turn around. They may not - I know that - and I'm ready to move on if I have to. Right now - at this moment - I don't want him back! well.... sorta anyway - I feel pretty good right now - just not sure of my specific plans over the next few weeks.

I've got a question for all of you. There's this one chick who keeps on sending jokes to my H in his old email account. She's theonly one who still has contact with him since our recovery now. I HATE that he gets these jokes from her. They went out on a date, and didn't hit it off, and now she lives 2 hrs away. Am I over-reacting in wanting H to email her to remove him from her list?

Well, Faith, you sound better. Give it time, I'm sure things will work out either way, I just hope they work out the way you want them to.

Topie,<P>I don't think so, If it were me I would do it myself, even if it were a big LB.

I should also add that there is never any personal note with the jokes. And he never responds to them.

I dont' think you're over-reacting.... <P>does he think you're over-reacting?

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Topie25:<BR><B>I've got a question for all of you. There's this one chick who keeps on sending jokes to my H in his old email account. She's theonly one who still has contact with him since our recovery now. I HATE that he gets these jokes from her. They went out on a date, and didn't hit it off, and now she lives 2 hrs away. Am I over-reacting in wanting H to email her to remove him from her list?</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>We are in a similar situation where my hubby gets email jokes from a one time date. It doesn't really bother me, though, because I know there is no interest there and he is completely open about it - he forwards me the jokes, groan... I guess it depends on the circumstances and if I saw it as a legitimate threat, I would ask him to end it. In my case, I just don't see it as a threat and asking him to put an end to it would cause more damage than the emails. <P>

Hi Faith, <P>I just got home and SEM didn't do anything around the house. My house is a wreck. Anyway, I heard about your H, sorry to hear. Were here to support you, Hope your feeling better.Sherry

P.S. these email jokes are always sent out to a GROUP with no personal note and I guess that's another reason that I don't see them as threatening.

he's a great avoider of any type of confrontation (part of what got us into our mess to begin with). I asked him to do a no contact email (simply stating that he and I are back together and her emails make me uncomfortable and to please stop). He wasn't comfortable with that at all. He blocked her from the addy, but it didn't work.. all it does is put her stuff directly into his deleted files.<P>I do think he thinks I'm overreacting. And he did try to solve the problem somewhat... it's just not enough for my satisfaction.<P>SEM: I've thought about emailing her myself. I think if I'm going to do that, I'll just wait and ask H about it first. Things are going well here, and we're both trying not to LB.

well, you know, at work, we pass around e-mails like crazy.. male, female, it doesn't matter... so... I guess the difference is that he dated her once. but if he never responds.... I don't know? If it truly bothers you, you should ask him to end it.

Dana: sounds exactly the same as my situation. I'm not worried about her being a threat at all. It's more to the point that I don't want to have any reminders of that time frame if possible. Can you relate to that?

thanks sherry... <P>sem, shame on you... go help sherry clean up....

Im here too......nothing to do tonight.<P>------------------<BR>