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Be careful! Take care of your feelings. Wait and see what her next words and gestures are and whether or not they align with one another... She has to prove herself. You have already proven your love, sounds like to me. Let her earn her way back! Do nothing!!!!!!!! (IF you can help yourself!)<P>It all sounds really good to me, but I just don't want you setting yourself up for another sting.

OOOO,<P>Nice update.<BR>I have concluded that you should go cold weather camping more often and make sure that the air bed is half inflated. See to it that the covers are to small for the bed so that you have to sleep close together!

OOOO,<P>glad to hear that your camping trip went well. sounds as if your wife might be taking tiny baby steps. never thought i be saying this to you just try & keep hanging in there. think about where you were at the beginning of the summer.<P>set a time & see where you are then.<P>sing<P>i liked cleo's idea, one very wise lady

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OOOO,<BR>go buy the tiny tent.<P>enjoy your lunch, I'll think about you & hope it goes well Fri.<P><BR>as for me school is really busy, but lots bettr than eco. Taking 1 internet class, requires lots of work, only go to the other 2, once a wk for 3 hrs. 1 tX histoyr, then education courses (have to say both of these are major improvements over the ed classes I took in the70's)<P>STBX & I are about to go to war over money. I knew it woul come to this but yet never thought it would either.

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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by OffOnOnOff:<BR><B>Sing,<P><BR>$$$ huh! Yep, it is always about $$$. My wife and I went to war before on this $$$ issue too. Even now, with only my income, she still said something about it when it comes to $$$. Sometimes I just don’t understand her at all.<P>OOOO</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P><BR>isn't it always about $$$$$. see I was a SAHM for over 15 yrs, worked part-time one yr, taught the yr A started, quit to move to Singapore. I told him I more than likely couldn't teach this yr but now I am suddenly suppose to provide half or more of what the boys & need. While he is looking for a house for him & OW, I don't think so. Guess I am going to have pull out everything. Today when I should be working on a project for one class I a sorting through receits. I am going to have to let my lawyer play hardball.<P>Enjoy your lunch.<BR>

Do you think she was struck by lightening before the camping trip? <P>Enjoy your lunch!!!! I am sure it will be the best tasting lunch you've had in a long time.

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR><BR>I mentioned to my wife yesterday that I went to eat at a new place a month ago with a friend who fixed my car and asked her if she would be interested in going there with me for lunch. To my surprise, she said yes. So this Friday we will having lunch together for just the two of us for the first time since March 23, 2000 (almost 19 months ago). I remember at that time during lunch, she couldn’t even look at me nor have eyes contacted. It was about a month after d-day and the affair was still on and strong. I don’t know what will happen this time. Oh well, it is just a lunch anyway.<BR><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Its things like this that keep me going OOOO. I'm very happy for you, hang in there guy.<P>------------------<BR>Semper Fi,<P><B>Husband2You</B><BR>*****<BR><I>···In the valley of the blind the one eye'd man is King···</I><P>· E-mail: <B> husband2you@petroleum.org </B> · ICQ: <B><A HREF="http://wwp.icq.com/1206499" TARGET=_blank>1206499</A></B> · Formerly: <B>E m p t y</B> ·