OK thats it ive had enough , you [censored] need to stop BRAINWASHING MY WIFE everytime she comes here she comes to me with all these stupid things that you eople do and say and frankly im sick of it you all sit here and whine about whos bangin who ....... who seen who do what...........what should i do if H bangs neibours cat?( that might be a intersting topic) but its all a bunch of BS if you people honestly spent as much time actually working on your marriges as you do reading and posting here then everything would be ok

If you had the balls to tell your wife what was wrong instead of being a big [censored] and going else where, maybe you and your wife wouldn't be here! Take responsibility for being a WEAK [censored]!!! <BR>My needs aren't being meet!!! Let me run and find me a fresh piece....

OTF,<P>Why are you so upset that your wife is trying to meet your needs? Or is it that she is trying to save your marriage ... whichever it is, it has certainly got you all riled up. <P>Go ahead and let off some steam here, we're here when you finally want to really talk, but in the meantime, please watch the cursin and swearin, the moderators don't like it and personally, neither do I.<P>God Bless,<BR>Jo

OTF, I was ready to commit another act of adultery yesterday. These "[censored]" to you which you refer, in their own special way, helped me to resist the temptation. <P>That would make two people in my troubled marriage very, very happy.<P><BR>

appropriate response Resilient....I apolagize for my earlier response....sorry ottathefog....please calm down and like Resilient stated, if you really want to discuss issues...keep posting......

I'm sorry you don't fully understand the meaning of this site. My WH and I are in recovery now, and IMO, it's all because of MB.<P>I have to admit, he gets tired of my talking about 'mb this, and mb that', but at the same time, over time, he's been able to see just how much this place has helped me to become a better me, and more in tune with his wants and needs. It isn't really his 'cup of tea' so to speak, but he certainly doesn't bash it. He's happy that I found a way to help me, him, our marriage.<P>Unfortunately, not enough of us share a lot of the good things that are going on. This place is more of a safe haven for venting and releasing energies that would otherwise be turned towards our spouses. In time, we learn how to deal with it all without the need to seek advice and encouragement from here. But that takes time.<P>Please give your W a break. She has a lot of issues to deal with. If anything, this site will help her to overcome that faster than without MB.<P>Karen

Okay.. going on a limb here... <P>Checked to see how many posts that OTF made. Seven total as of today...<P>The first was: Wicca religon anyone know anything about it. <BR>on: August 26th 2001<BR>URL: <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum37/HTML/012009.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum37/HTML/012009.html</A> <P>and this was the post:<P> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>long time lurker<BR>first time poster<BR>my wife is having an EA/ possible PA with a man who claims to be of this Wiccan religion. i heard they cast spells and stuff. is this an evil religon or vodooism or paganism or something can someone please help me i fear for her well being<HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>The response to the post, after everyone invaded it.. IMHO.. <P>was this to the same post on: August 27<P> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR><BR>for those who seem offended by my post<BR>i do not usually put in punctuation marks because i t ype fast<P>however in this post i asked QUESTIONS <BR>i ASKED what the religion was about<BR>i was not slandering it in any way<P>sorry for any misiterpretation<BR><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Todays post was cross posted to 3 FORUMS:<BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum31/HTML/004387.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum31/HTML/004387.html</A> <BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum8/HTML/005905.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum8/HTML/005905.html</A> <P>and this thread.<P>Before all of us are quick to judge the individual posting.. I am willing to bet that these two people are not the same individuals. Maybe the OM or the WS posting...?? <P>OTF if it is you posting and cross posting.. I apoligize that everyone responded back to you in such the manner that they did.<P>Please.. start a new thread.. read my post to the LURKERS I made this weekend.. and lets start over.. you and I and I'll see what I can do to help you and your wife through this.<P>If anyone has been through it all, I want you to know that I'm not proud to say it.. but I pretty much have... that I have probably one of the worst scenarios here.. and that is not to trivialize the others situations.. but its not hard to stand back and look and see... so I know where you at.. maybe not as well as others.. but man.. I'm here just like you are. Alot on my plate, yes.. but not to much to help you. If its you posting.. thats fine.. if its your wife.. thats fine also.. someone else.. we'll deal with that.. regardless who posted this.. <P>Talk to me OTF, I'm here.<BR><P>------------------<BR>Semper Fi,<P><B>Husband2You</B><BR>*****<BR><I>···In the valley of the blind the one eye'd man is King···</I><P>· E-mail: <B> husband2you@petroleum.org </B> · ICQ: <B><A HREF="http://wwp.icq.com/1206499" TARGET=_blank>1206499</A></B> · Formerly: <B>E m p t y</B> ·

oops<p>[This message has been edited by Husband2you (edited September 04, 2001).]