H's job history has been shaky since we met. in the 2 yrs weve been married h has switched from one to the other uneployed more often than not. after we had our baby i went back to work full time as a receptionist. after about 6 months H says he wants me to be a stay at home mom and he will work FT..... i agree thinking parenting has changedd him, this is about the same time H's A started. that was the only time he actually enjoyed going to work.<P>a year later i decided that i wanted to go back to work H has been in and out of jobs since dday. H is working PT for a store and in order for me to go back to work (these are H's stipulations) H got to get a 200 dollar pc game. i agreed figuring that my income will make up the difference to get this game.<BR>last night i got called into work. i told my boss that i would be there.<BR>H got on me the minute i hung up the phone saying call her back tell her youre not working.<BR>(this is a waitressing job and tips are good and we are broke) .<BR>I told h that we needed the money and i was going.<BR>he then refused to drive me .<BR>he refused to watch baby.<BR>says he made plans.<BR>i told him i felt that money was more important right now to to reschedule.<BR>( i did not know of any plans earlier)<BR>H then yells at me for not asking him if i could go fist.<BR>Huh hes kidding right.<BR>i then LBed all over the place telling him that was going and that he would watch his baby. i told him to stop controling me he was my H not my warden and to stop being like that.<BR>H gave me a ride to work every now and then making some comment/ reason why i shouldnt go to work.. he kissed me goodbye and when he came and picked me up neither of us mentioned it. the rest of the night went well overall<P>I cannot abide to be controlled like that and it upsets me that he treats me this way.<P>i told him how i felt but next time i go to work he will forget what i told him. <P><BR>Any advice or comments welcome.<P>

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